How to Break up with Somone

Almost everyone will have to break up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend at some point in his or her life. Breaking up is honestly a hard thing to do no matter what the situation. At some point in time, you found something special in this person that you are now going to have to get out of your life. Now these good times and special features must be bypassed so you can do what's best for you. An easy way to remember the tools you need is to remember the Wizard of Oz, because all you need is courage, a heart and a brain.

The first step to ending a relationship is realizing it is going nowhere. Realization is the most important step. After making this conclusion, your brain knows what to do, even if your heart may feel different. In addition, a person tends to fall out of love easier when they think of their future (or lack there of) with a specific man or woman. When you recognize the relationship is not going to lead to a loving marriage, the logical side of you thinks of the next step, starting over without him/her in your life. This way of thinking also helps to console a broken heart after a break up.

The second step is deciding how to tell your significannot

other. You can tell the person in many ways, but be cautious and consider their temperament and personality. This subject can be very painful and needs to be personalized. Let them know gently that at one point in time you cared for them tremendously and that they will always be special to you, but now it is time for you to move on to better yourself. Ensure the person of past times you have enjoyed and let them know you appreciate them for helping you to grow as a person. Tell them what you have learned from the relationship and let them know that you will carry on this knowledge forever. You can further use your experience from this relationship when you come to problems in future relationships. Do not attack the person with how they hurt you or hit them with personal blows. True, there is a reason you are breaking up, but there is no need to include that because it will only start an argument. This leads us to our next matter, what to do if they ask what went wrong?

If the person asks what went wrong do not verbally attack them. This could lead to many situations that could make the break up more difficult, including an unwanted fight. Tell them simply that it is you and blame yourself. If