Is He the Two-Timing Type?

IS HE THE TWO-TIMING TYPE?

BY Lakshmi S.

The feeling constantly haunts you. You know there is something going on, but are unable to figure out the cause for his rather strange behaviour in the recent past. However, you do not want to lose that most important ingredient in your marriage - trust. How then can you tell whether your guy is two-timing you?

You don't require a detective's eye to discover infidelity. Here are a few signs to watch out for:

He is fixated about his looks

He suddenly starts to dress differently and changes his wardrobe. He shaves and cleans up before he goes "out with his buddies"!

He is no longer interested in sex or has gone completely wild in bed

There is a sudden burst of energy in your sex life. You even find him trying new things with you. On the other hand, a complete withdrawal from sex could mean he is finding his pleasure pursuits elsewhere.

He argues at the drop of a hat

If you find your man constantly trying to pick a fight with you for the smallest things, from no milk in the refrigerator to a new dress you're wearing, he is probably only trying to justify the fact that he's cheating on you to himself.

He has suddenly become a workaholic

You find him staying late in the office more often than he used to and his established routine has changed suddenly without any plausible reason. Men in most cases, use the office to mask their infidelity.

His memory suddenly becomes foggy

He's uncertain and struggles for an answer if you ask him what he was working on the previous evening, or where he ate lunch.

If you find your man doing the above, first, do not get paranoid. Try to analyse the situation before confronting him. All the above 'symptoms' could be genuinely explained away. For instance, he could be working on a new project at work that takes up more of his time. Or, if he's more aggressive in bed, he could just be trying to rekindle the flame between you!

However, if you are