Kurt Cobain

"I had a good marriage, and for that I'm grateful...but I've become hateful toward all humans in general only because it seems so easy for people to get along that have empathy." Kurt Cobain, in his 'suicide note', found next to his corpse on Friday, April 8th 1994, stated his hatred towards human society. Dead at 27, he remains among one of the most monumental and controversial lyrists in history. In spite of his tempestuous marriage with drug addict, Courtney Love, reckless drug abuse, and a childhood drained of emotion, Cobain escalated to become the epitome of a rockstar - an alluring misfit who spent every waking minute under surveillance by either drug officers or the Time magazine paparazzi. Kurt indeed lived the life of a punk rock fantasy and continues to be remembered as he was publicized: the last genuine rockstar.

Wendy, Kurt's mother, gave birth to her first son on February 20th, 1967 ("Kurt Cobain"). Wendy was a stay-at-home wife while her husband, Donald, worked at the local gas station in Aberdeen, Washington. In spite of Kurt's impoverished home-life, he stated that his childhood was full of happiness. Kurt received nothing but kisses and hugs as a child, was as if the Cobain's focused on affection, the family's main philosophy (Gracie 7). Aside from his relationship with his parents; however, came his association with music - the two components which formed Kurt's personality. "Since the age of two", his Aunt Mari began, "he's been singing...He would sing the Beatles' songs like "Hey Jude"...He had a lot of charisma at a young age". Kurt received his first percussion instrument for his third birthday: a bass drum. Yet, this is only because he was entirely too impatient to play the guitar (Gracie 8). As Kurt grew older, his impatience increased and he grew to be extremely overactive. And by the age of seven he was diagnosed with an attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder, shortened to ADHD. To assist Kurt's energy levels he was prescribed Ritalin, which, when broken down, is a form of Speed. This makes up for the scientific hypothesis that Ritalin causes addictive behavior in life; however, if the person who does have an ADHD disorder and is not prescribed, then the person is more likely to become a drug addict (Cross 29). As an adult, Kurt commented to a reporter about his Ritalin and explained, "When you're a kid and you get this drug that makes you feel good, where are you going to turn when you're an adult...it was something that gave you that [euphoric] feeling as a child - isn't that a memory that is going to stick with you?"

However, everything seemed to alter for Kurt when his mother filed a divorce against his father on March 29th, 1975 (Grace 9). To Kurt, the divorce was a hell that

shaped his personality into what he became (Cross 21). On June 7th of 1976, Kurt wrote on his bedroom wall, "I hate Mom, I hate Dad. Dad hates Mom, Mom hates Dad." - the of his parents was lost (Cross 21). Kurt went into a state of denial and depression; he both needed his family, and at the same time did not. He was shuffled in and out of his parents' new homes, giving the impression that he was, truly, a vagabond. But the tension between Kurt and his parents eased when Don received custody on June 8th, 1978 (Cross 27). The same year, however, Don remarried, and all the positive attention focused on him was shifted towards Kurt's new stepmother (Cross 34). Kurt withdrew, and his father simply could not bear his own son any longer. By 1982, Kurt was lodging with his Uncle Jim, a drug addict (Cross 39). That summer, Kurt started getting into heavier rock music and began listening to Black Sabbath and Led Zeppelin, yet his favorite band at the time was Journey. At age 14, to get in tune with the new music genre, Kurt decided to give up playing the drums and began taking guitar lessons.

At Aberdeen High School, Cobain soon lost his interest in sports and his preppy classmates (Cross 41). Kurt also disregarded most academics, focusing mainly on his art and music courses. His most recognized was his friendship was with a gay student, led to bullying at the hands of homophobic students ("Biography Kurt Cobain"). That friendship, along with his rather delicate stature, led some students to believe that he himself was gay. Kurt also disregarded most academics, focusing mainly on his art and music courses (Cross 42). He often drew during classes, including objects associated with fetuses and the human body (Cross 42). By this time Kurt's life revolved around music. He joined a local musical group known as 'The Melvins', which soon inspired Kurt to form a band of his own when Kurt flunked out of high school six weeks before graduation ("Cobain, Kurt"). Because his mother wanted nothing to do with a failure, she gave him one of two options: "Get a job, or get out" ("Cobain, Kurt"). So a week later Kurt left his house, holding nothing but what he could carry within two trash bags.

As a result of his musical talents, Kurt put together an original music band called Nirvana; a band that soon became known worldwide for intensity and originality. In the late 1980s , pop culture was at an all-time high in the United States and punk rock reigned in all of Europe. The pop culture was really only made for nothing more than commercial purposes. Legendary pop stars such as Madonna, Prince, and the "King of Pop," Michael Jackson, dedicated most of their lyrics to physical and emotional love, but since love was something Kurt did not fully experience throughout the majority of his life, pop music really didn't really catch his attention ("Pop Music"). As a result, the band then looked towards punk rock - music with a fast tempo, heavy drums, light-tuned guitars, and vocals that generated from the throat ("Punk Music").