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RITUALS, RULES, CULTURAL TRADITION

" illegitimacy isn't a big deal any more!" (p35)

Jacob: " But what's the big deal? Everyone has babies without being married these days. Everyone lives together and gets remarried."

Josie: "We live in the same country but we're different. What's taboo for Italians isn't taboo for Australians." (p152)

" A daughter's behaviour always reflects on how good a mother is." (p37)

"...you want to

go out?"

"...You'd have to meet my mother." (p106)

Tomato day -- National Wog Day (p171)

" A tradition that we'll never let go. A tradition that I probably will never let go of either, simply because there are some things that could offend people I love. You live with such freedom Jacob... You live without religion and culture. All you have to do is abide by the law."

PRESSURE

Jacob: "Welcome to the nineties, Josephine. Women don't have to be virgins any more."

Josie: "...Women don't have to be pushed into things anymore...it's (virginity) not a prize and I'm not a prize. But it's mine. It belongs to me and I can only give it away once and I want to be sure when it happens Jacob...or one day someone else is doing it. I don't want to do it, Jacob, because everyone else is doing it." (p213)

Michael: "...living is the challenge, Josie. Not dying. Dying is so easy. Sometimes it only takes ten seconds to die. But living? That can take you eighty years and you do something in that time, whether it is giving birth to a baby or being a housewife or a barrister or a soldier. You've accomplished something. To throw that away at such a young age, to have no hope, is the biggest tragedy." (p236)

"Father Stephen said that peace is a state of mind. We will never have world peace, John, so we have to be peaceful within ourselves and that will make us happy." (p134)

John Barton: "I've always had to be the best because it's been expected of me." (p46)

"But I don't know what I want to be...how can I tell my father I don't want to study law, if I don't know what else I want to be." (p133-134)

DESTINY

Josie: "...we're masters of our own destiny."

Lee: "That's rubbish. If your father's a dustman, you're going to be a dustman and if our father's filthy rich, you're going to be filthy rich because he'll introduce you to his rich friend's son. People breed with their own kind...the rich marry the rich, Josie, and the poor marry the poor. The dags will marry the dags and wogs marry wogs..." (p144)

LEADERSHIP

Sister Louise: "I know what came over you. You decided to become a sheep for the day, Josephine. You weren't a leader. You were a follower. You'll never amount to anything if you can be so easily influenced." (p181)

"You and your friends are trendsetters. The girls look up to you. They copy what you do. They'll probably