Marriage

I grew up with marriage as image of something wonderful that when it is, is for whole life. Two people connect together in bond of marriage in which their promise each other to be together for better and worse. In my family marriage is view as something beautiful that has to last forever. If married couple has a problem there are together to solve it not to fall apart because of that. When I was little I never thought about marriage, I was too young for that. But when I start to grow up I realized that marriage is not only love. I realized that it doesn't look so beautiful like in the movies. It's like taking whole life homework. Don't do something today and you will fall back. You have to take care of your marriage or it will rust.

Now I know that marriage is not like it was in my mind before. It doesn't look beautiful for me. People do not treat married anymore like it was years before. In my opinion people treat married more as an adventure or just simple impulse of feelings. Many of them after years, sometimes even after month realize that they made mistake. After whole ceremony in church, promises and party with families from both sides' people decides that it's not written for them to be together. They often leave each other with complication not only in love but also in financial situation. Some people wants to get married in order to get money from other side they marring. I can say that my whole previous image of marriage is ruined now.

I think that married has a lot do with faith. People nowadays are not that strong in faith. Marriage in order to successes needs blessing from God and work from both sides. Faith in marriage is very important because it gives strength to the couple.

In my opinion before church decides to give marriage to two people should do some kind of interview with them. Maybe even should organize program for couples that want to get married. To present to loving couple what marriage might be. Give them examples of different people that had diverse reasons to decide to be together for life. Maybe that will give them to think if that what they about to do is something they really want. Church should find out if people really want to be together for real or only because they are influence by impulse or by something else. In my opinion Church should not allowed people in young age to get married. They are not experience in life; they often close their paths in life. If