People's Mind Are Change Through Observation and Not Through Agrument

Peoples mind are change through observation

and not through argument

          Have you ever tried to have an argument with your friend about any topic? Did you ever believe it or you always have to think twice to believe it? Anyone of us has our thoughts, ideas and understanding but there is only one truth and that is by experience. You can’t tell people what you think, but you can always tell tem stories.

            Reality doesn’t exist when you are not looking at it. No one can tell that something is true unless they prove it themselves. Arguments are unacceptable, inaccurate and irrelevant premises. Your friends were the one who is always with you almost all of the time and they are the one who could be the highest influence. It isn’t bad to hear the things friends could tell you but there is nothing wrong of investigating it fist so you could have a valid reason to believe them. Honestly is not really easy to believe someone’s idea or thoughts unless there’s a prove about it. I always contradict my friends whenever they tell me something, I don’t always believe them. There is no doubt that observation is really the best thing a anyone could do for them to be able to clear out their minds upon hearing any opinions. It doesn’t seem to make sense: You used to be best friends, but now you can’t go a day without fighting. Your partner says something that triggers you that you feel attacked or devalued and you react: Maybe you yell, slam the door and walk out, or you shut down and refuse to continue the conversation. Looking back, it may be hard to tell how you even got into the argument in the first place. These responses are not rationally chosen. Rather, they are triggered by external stimuli which cause your brain to fire almost instantly. Many of us have had experiences in the past where such a response was necessary for physical or emotional survival, and the brain has been shaped in ways to optimize these self-defense responses. The trouble is, while our reactions were probably shaped by a legitimate threat in the past, it may now be exaggerated in terms of the threat we now perceive from our partner when discussing an uncomfortable subject. That’s were observation is used to. People won’t argue with you unless you have the basis in your own experience, you have a valid data of observation and the truth. Observation makes a valid point.