Perception of Logic

Nature of Logic and Perception

Natasha Decker

University of Phoenix

PHL 251

John Honchell

March 13, 2006

Perception is defined as, "the act of perceiving; cognizance by the senses or intellect; apprehension by the bodily organs, or by the mind, of what is presented to them; discernment; apprehension; cognition" (cite). Reality is defined as, " the quality or state of being actual or true" (cite). So, perception is simply what we perceive as the truth. On the other hand, reality is the actual truth. Using these definitions as a guideline I am able to identify an instance where my perception of what was reality, was far different from the actual reality.

Before having children, I had a perception of what motherhood would be like. The perception that I had was fueled by many sources. Media, mostly television, other mothers, and my own thoughts formed my perception of motherhood. Television has a way of glamorizing almost everything. Motherhood in television in general seems fairly effortless, baby sleeping, mom looking great, house clean, etc. Other mothers also are to blame. Usually, due to mothers simply not wanting to admit that things aren't easy, and that sometimes it is overwhelming and not fun to be a mom.

Motherhood, before I had children seemed a lot easier. Only spending small amounts of time around friends and family with children I did get a look into the reality of being parents. From an outsider looking in it looked like so much fun. I couldn't imagine what was better than a new baby, so cute and sweet. Not to mention how funny and energetic they become as toddlers. Somehow, I figured that a baby would just work into our lives without any major adjustment. Another perception of motherhood that I held was that keeping an immaculate household, being the perfect wife, and perfect mother was achievable. Needless to say I was in for a rude awakening when the actual reality of the situation hit.

Reality hit hard when I gave birth to my first child. I then realized that my perception of motherhood was totally different