Perfect Husband

Perfect Husband

Young ladies have in their minds set on the "Perfect husband" and who they will marry. By the time I turned sixteen I already knew who I was going to marry when, where, what dress I wanted, and what colors the wedding was going to be. In reality I knew Chris Brown was not going to be my husband. I probably would not ever get to meet him face to face. Sexy, smart, wealthy, and funny those are some characteristic the society considers as important for "perfect husband". Who will I marry? Will it be my boyfriend now? Is he the perfect the husband for me? What is the perfect husband?

My ideal husband will be faithful and have a stable job. He loves his mom and treats her like a queen therefore, he will do the same for me. He will open my door for me when I walk in to any room. I would like for him to be wealthy. He needs to have both a bachelor's and master's degree. He needs to have a affection and consideration towards me. He would go to church every Sunday without me begging him to go. He will spoil me and get me whatever I would like. He needs to be able to understand me and be my best friend. A good looking husband is important. He has to have compassion and flirt with me often. I need to be able to come to him about anything and tell him everything. I need a man who will be there through "death do us part". I need a man who loves kids and is willing to have at least three to four.

I have been with my boyfriend Jordan for six years. I always wonder if he is the perfect husband for me. He has been my best friend since middle school. He has always been there for me. He has had my back since I could remember. When I want to talk or when I have something on my chest, he just sits there and listens. I love the way he dresses. he knows what I like and do not like. Sometimes I feel like he knows me better than I know myself. He will not yell or curse at me no matter how mad I make him. When I am having a bad day, he is always there to comfort me and make me happy again. Every morning he will tell me he loves me and why he loves me. He tells me every day he cannot wait to marry me. I am not a very good cook and thank God he is. When I am sick, he will stop everything he is doing to come take care of me and to make sure I have everything I need.

There is something my boyfriend does that makes me rethink about him being my perfect husband. At times he can be very moody; one moment he is fine and the next he is upset. I need a man who will stick up for me. Sometimes when I tell him things, I feel like he should always