Should Girls Ask Boys Out?

Name: Le To Uyen Truc

Topic 3: Should girls ask boys out?

             “Life is not about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself” – George Bernard Shaw. It is not wrong to say that human have the right to do whatever they want and be not follow any rule. They can live as the way they like and be themselves, both girls and boys. However, some of people think differently, they are usually think that only boys can ask girls for coming out. Moreover, this thing has become the hottest news on the media and people can find many results on the Internet. Should girls ask boys out or should boys ask girl out? There are many opinions about it. Girls absolutely can ask boys out and it is not a bad choice, in fact, it has many good effects.

              First, when girls ask boys for going with her, this means they are very active, confident and discipline. They know how to start a date and how to end it in the right way. They will never let unrespecting things happen to them and it seems like everything is in their control. These girls know what they are doing in their dates and never make their men feel boring. It is a good thing for girls. Men are usually feel interested in those girls who know their ambitions and try to make it come true by themselves. These girls always have something mysterious to men and men like to conquer new things. Therefore, although these girls are fearless, men are always like to going out with them because their attractions.

               Second, now this is the 21st century and the society has develop very much. The think of men are the best and women are nothing does not exist anymore. Nowadays, in the modern life, girls can ask boys out anytime they like. On the other hand, boys are happy to go out with girls and both of them can do many fascinating things like go to the cinema, go shopping and like that. This means girls have same places, same positions like boys in the community. They are also have the right to join in any works or any elections, which in the past, they could not take part in it. Girls are equal with boys in many aspects in life.  

              Third, when girls ask boys go out with them, they can also make new friends and create some new relationships. Making new friend is a chance for girls to be more sociable. This will help them very much in the future, if they go to work or join in a project. They will have more opportunity to do the job, which they love. In addition, when a girl can do her dream job, she can become very attracted.

              The opponents of this might say that girls should not ask boys to go out with her because it will ruin her reputation. In addition, the society will think that girl is an easy person who can go out with any man she meets for the first time. However, as state previously, girls have the right to do anything, which they like, including asking boys go out with them because they have the equality in social life. The community should see which is right and wrong, not just depending on one side of the problem. Thus, girls ask boys out is a normal thing, people should have a new look about this. A girls ask a boy go out with her does not mean she is an easy girl, in fact; she can be a lovely and friendly person.