Facing Hard Emotions While Getting Older

Facing hard emotions while getting older

Facing hard emotions while getting older

The elderly man was placidly sitting in his armchair rocking himself to steep. He had no reason to stay up any longer, no reason prick up his ears in anticipation of a knock at the door. He was all alone and that was how it had to be from then on. Alone in that little, two-bedroom flat with one window over looking the hustling and bustling streets below.

Most of the elderly people are living this burden, all alone, all the time, maybe the only companion is a pet sometimes which for them means the world. This is time in our life where we feel the sense of surrender. One will begin feeling also the sense of abandonment pressuring hard on us. Some are left alone maybe by the death of his or her companion or by their own children. It is true that everyone is busy nowadays but it is part of our duty to take care and visit these elderly people as often as we can, one time or another we will be taking their place in society.

It is reasonable that their own children cannot offer them to live with them in their house sometimes until their death because this may bring about several problems. Maybe between family members it will cause less freedom and independence. It is also true that old people try to manipulate and run the family of their children; it is hard to change old people's perceptions and strong ideas.

Some children try to escape from their responsibilities of taking care of their parents by taking them to old people's homes, and they barely every think of going to visit them. All this will arise countless of feelings and emotions among old people; they will start feeling lonely and belief that no one loves them. This does not mean that these residential homes are of no help; on the contrary they are excellent because they will make new friends and they feel that they are living in a society again. But the need of their family members will still be there otherwise this will cause emptiness in their life.

Being of such a company and help to old people is not only the duty of their own children or other family members but also by neighbors or maybe other close friends. Even though they are old and may be of no use in life any longer they are still part of our society. Having more residential homes for these people in society